Amanda Cade

Worth It! (Things to try, read, watch, hear, and discuss)

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As usual, lots of people at work have been adding holiday decorations to their desks, shelves, doors, etc. I am no exception. However, my new favorite decoration (pictured above) has gotten some interesting reactions. The most common (as the post title implies) is “What is THAT?” Others include:

  • “Is that a frog? No, it has wings, and…tentacles?”
  • “I feel like it’s looking at me.”
  • “I’m not sure if that’s cute or concerning. Or both.”
  • “Um, have you considered something a little more…um…normal?”
  • “Is that from a movie…or a book…or…?”
  • “Seriously, can you put it away until I leave?”
  • “Oh, what a cute…whatever it is.”
  • “Omg, it’s Cthulhu Claus!”

That last one was from a colleague who’s totally on my wavelength when it comes to being a geek, and therefore correctly identified this super-cute interpretation of the horrific Great Old One from H.P. Lovecraft’s “The Call of Cthulhu”. We then spent a very unproductive but insanely fun fifteen minutes looking at all the great Cthulhu Claus artwork online.

I might have to keep him around all year.

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Do you have/have you seen any offbeat holiday decorations? 

 

National Pastry Day is one of my favorite lesser-known holidays, for reasons I’m sure I don’t have to explain. Lol. I happen to be one of the luckiest sugar freaks in the world, because I live less than ten minutes away from the best donut shop in St. Louis (according to multiple media polls, and my personal opinion) and a fantastic bakery. Both are locally owned and operated by talented and incredibly nice people, and I’ve been a loyal customer since I moved back to St. Louis about sixteen years ago. This morning, I went to Helfer’s Pastries and spent almost ten minutes debating between dozens of wonderful options, before finally narrowing it down to a cinnamon roll or a caramel roll…

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…and then buying both. I’m not going to eat them both by myself. I promise.

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Do you have a favorite pastry, bakery, and/or locally owned business?

 

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I’m really excited to have completed the first week of Blogmas! So far, I’ve posted:

Today, I wanted to share a new gift idea: a wallet sized laminated bookmark/card so easy to make that even I can do it! (As I’ve mentioned before, my craft skills are…questionable.) I’ve made about two dozen of these for various people, and each one cost me less than a dollar and didn’t take long at all.

Step One: Supplies

20191207_072919The key element of this project is a self adhesive laminating pouch. I used wallet size, and bought them from Amazon in packs of 10 (here’s a link if you want to take a look). They’re also available at office supply stores, and probably other places, and they have other sizes if you want to make something a little bigger. Other than that, all you need is a computer, printer, and paper. You could also hand write or draw, if that’s more to your taste, although using the computer definitely saves time in the long run (and is a lifesaver for those of us with limited artistic skill).

Step Two: Design

20191207_072824All you have to do is create a new document, insert a table, and set the row height and column width to fit inside the pouch. For wallet sized, I set the dimensions at 2.2 x 3.3 inches, which let me fit three on a page. Once that’s done, you can fill the space with whatever images, messages, etc. that you want. Each row in your table will become the front and back of one of your cards. For my nieces, I put a picture of us on the front and a personalized message on the back. For my sisters, there’s a picture and holiday message on one side and a list of favorite memories on the other. You can personalize it as much or as little as you want-there’s nothing wrong with using the same design for multiple people, or for everyone. I made five copies, for five of my friends, of the one pictured here. It has a general holiday message, and lines from a Matt Hart poem called “The Friend”.

Step Three: Assemble

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Print out your designs, and then carefully cut the rows apart. Fold each one in half, and then seal them in the pouch. It’s that easy!

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Do you make any of your holiday gifts? What are some of your favorites to give or receive?

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Today is National Letter Writing Day. The intent is to encourage handwritten letters, preferably mailed, and I am doing that (three to family members and one to a dear friend in another state), but it also seemed like a good time to share a few thoughts with all of you. So here goes:

Dear Blogging Community,

After blogging for just over a year, I am still amazed at the wonderful, supportive, talented, and interesting people that I never knew were out there. Starting this blog has not only been a great creative outlet for me, but has exposed me to so many new ideas and caring individuals.

Thank you for the recipes, the reviews, the recommendations, and the life hacks. Thank you for the poetry, stories, and reflections. Thank you for the fun facts and amazing pictures. Reading your posts is a daily joy.

Thank you for reading my posts, and for the likes and comments. Thank you for letting me know when a suggestion, tip, or recommendation has resonated with you. Thank you for the support and concern when I’ve been sick, stressed, or dealing with loss and disappointment. Thank you for laughing at my stories and taking my snark in the intended spirit.

You are all amazing people, and I’m so glad to be part of your community.

love Amanda

Why are you glad to be a blogger/reader?

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I always keep a collection of small gifts on hand, in case I have an impulse to give someone a pick me up or a thank you, or if I need a last minute present for a forgotten event. Once December rolls around, I stock up even more, making sure that I’m well supplied both at home and at work. I never want to have someone unexpectedly hand me a present and have nothing to give them in return. It just feels terrible.

Here are a few of the things I always have ready to go:

  • Cute pens and notepads (see above)
  • A variety of $5 and $10 gift cards (Starbucks, QuikTrip, Walgreens, Amazon, etc.)
  • Candles
  • Pocket sized bottles of lotion
  • Candy
  • Bookmarks
  • Boxes of flavored teabags and cocoa mix

I can quickly select an appropriate item (or several), toss it in a gift bag (I also keep those handy), and I’m covered.

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Do you have an emergency gift stash? Any suggestions for what I could add to mine?

I wrote a post last year about unconventional holiday music (one of my favorite early posts) and I definitely have my offbeat holiday tunes on shuffle right now. I’m also mixing in more traditional music, and I have absolutely fallen in love with Idina Menzel’s Christmas: A Season of Love. I’ve been a Menzel fan since Rent hit the scene back in 1996, and of course I adored her performances as Elphaba in Wicked and Elsa in Frozen. She is, without question, one of my favorite musical artists, and this album is fantastic.

Every song is a winner, but I especially enjoy her duet with Ariana Grande, which pays tribute to an unsung holiday hero:

And a stunning medley of two classic songs:

The album is available everywhere, and if you’re an Amazon Prime member, it’s included in the free streaming service.

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What’s on your holiday playlist?

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Last weekend, my mother and I attended the Cirque Dreams Holidaze performance at the Fox Theater here in St. Louis. It. Was. Awesome. Check this out:

The music and costumes were amazing, but of course the incredible performances by the acrobats, jugglers, and magicians were the center of the show. As a huge circus fan, I was on cloud nine, and Mom loved it almost as much as I did. If this year’s tour happens to be coming to your area, I strongly recommend checking it out (the rest of the tour dates and locations are here). It was the perfect way to kick off the holiday season.

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Do you have any exciting holiday plans coming up?

Giving Tuesday has been around since 2012, and is intended to encourage people to donate time, support, money, etc. to good causes and to their communities. For more information click here. I’ve been participating in Giving Tuesday since I first heard about it in 2014 (missed the first two years, unfortunately) and it’s always a great day.

Here’s what I’m up to today:

  • I spent some time this morning straightening up supplies and materials at work, to make it easier for my colleagues to find things they need.
  • I made a donation to one of my favorite charities: Donor’s Choose. If you aren’t familiar with this organization, it “empowers public school teachers from across the country to request much-needed materials and experiences for their students” (from the website). Donors can search for funding requests by subject or area (to support a local school) or just browse projects to find the right one to support. Today, I gave a donation to help a teacher provide her students with an updated classroom library. To learn more, or find a project to support, click here.
  • After work, I’m stopping by a local food back to drop off a donation and spend an hour or so helping the staff.

Today, I’d like to encourage you to look for an opportunity to give, even if it’s something as simple as doing someone a favor or lending a sympathetic ear. Even if you don’t get to it today, any day is a good day to give.

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How did/can you celebrate Giving Tuesday? Let me know in the comments!

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Yesterday, I mentioned that I had a theme I would be using for some of my Blogmas posts. There’s a website I really love that maintains a list of all kinds of “holidays”, including the well known, the official but not well publicized, and the ones people just made up but have caught on. It’s how I know to celebrate things like Aunt’s and Uncles Day and Talk Like a Pirate Day. Anyway, I’ll be periodically (or possibly regularly) highlighting a few lesser known holidays during the holiday season (you can find the full December list here).

Yesterday was National Christmas Lights Day. A few friends and I had planned to celebrate by visiting Santa’s Magical Kingdom, an amazing display of Christmas lights about 40 minutes from where we live. Unfortunately, my friends had a conflict arise and we had to postpone the trip. Undaunted, I hopped in my car to drive around the neighborhood and have a smaller light display experience. In the process, I learned three things:

  1. Very few people in my neighborhood have their houses decorated this early.
  2. While pulling over to take pictures out of the car window with my phone sounds good in theory, it’s actually difficult to get good pictures that way (the photo above was the best I managed).
  3. Yes, I can in fact get lost just a few blocks from home. In my defense, my neighborhood has a lot of connected streets and subdivisions, and it was dark. And yes, I know that’s not much of a defense.

I had fun, enjoyed the lights I got to see, and eventually found my way home. I’m calling it a success.

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Seen any good holiday lights displays lately?

I started my blog just over a year ago (and I still can’t believe it’s been a year already), so shortly after I got going I started seeing lots of Blogmas posts. The challenge, I soon learned, was to post every day from December 1 to December 25. I knew there was no way I was ready for something like that, but I read tons of Blogmas posts and discovered a lot of great blogs via the tag. This time last year, I figured that within a year I’d be posting a lot more than once a week, and that I’d be totally ready to give Blogmas a try. If you’re a regular reader, you already know that I never did get around to increasing my post frequency (life has just been too busy for me to get there at this point). So I decided against trying Blogmas this year…until this morning.

Seeing “December 1” on my calendar today immediately reminded me of Blogmas, and so I decided to take a few minutes to really think about the reasons I had chosen not to participate, and if the obstacles could be overcome. In the end, I realized I can do this. Or at least I’m going to try. It occurred to me that many of the things that made me hesitate to accept the Blogmas challenge apply to lots of other situations. So if you’re thinking about trying something new, here are some things to consider:

You don’t have to be perfect.

approvedOne of the reasons I don’t post more often is that I have pretty high standards for my posts, so they take a lot of time to write. I have a mental checklist that includes length, applicability, number of subtopics, and lots of other criteria. I think the list really improves my posts’ quality, and I plan to keep it around. However, there is absolutely no way I could write those kinds of posts for 25 straight days, especially since I did absolutely no prep work for this challenge. However, who says I have to do that? A lot of blogs I follow have short posts, and I enjoy reading them. If I’m planning to do six extra posts every week, there’s no reason they can’t be smaller, more focused things that I actually have time to write. I could even repost some of my holiday themed posts from last year if I hit a time crunch. This train of thought reminded me of one of my rules of productivity: avoid perfectionism traps by determining a minimum acceptable outcome.

Wanting to do something is a good reason to try it.

goalsI originally took Blogmas off my to do list when the sky fell in at work a few weeks back. With so many things I have to do right now, I put a lot of things I want to do on the back burner. I’m all about priorities, but a blanket rejection of the fun in favor of the practical isn’t always the best call. I was excited (and a little nervous) about trying Blogmas, and that’s enough of a reason to give it a go. Even if I don’t complete the challenge, every extra post I complete will be a small victory.

You can do new things your own way.

you do youOne of my major concerns about Blogmas was the challenge of coming up with 25 holiday themed posts. Then I thought, “Wait a minute-do they really have to all be holiday themed? Is that a rule? Are there Blog Police who will come after me if I post about something else?” As far as my research shows, there are no official Blog Police (and isn’t that a relief?), and a lot of bloggers have said that it’s cool to post about other things. Besides, although I feel better that people have “given me permission” to participate through non-holiday content, it would be ok regardless, because it’s totally cool to be flexible when you try something new. My focus on Blogmas is posting for 25 straight days, and so that’s my ultimate goal, regardless of the topics of the posts. Speaking of doing things my own way, one of the things that really tipped me into the “yes” column was an idea for a theme that could tie a lot of my posts together, and help me get past the dreaded writer’s block. More about that coming soon (probably Tuesday).

It’s ok to not succeed 100%.

oopsI don’t like making commitments and not following through, and I was really worried that saying “I’m going to do Blogmas!” and then not getting up all 25 posts would be a terrible tragedy. Then I hit the reality check button. For one thing, it wouldn’t be the first time I had to break a personal blogging promise. Early in my blogging experience, I promised myself that I would post at least once a week, and that I would be consistent with my “month in review” posts. Well, month in review is something I haven’t done in a little while, and back in September I actually missed a weekly post. You know what I discovered? Not only did I sneak past the Blog Police, but I didn’t even feel guilty about it. Overall, I think I’ve done very well with being consistent on the blog, and a few lapses because life got in the way are completely acceptable. On a philosophical level, I can’t get behind the idea that I shouldn’t try just because I might not make it all the way to the finish line. Goodness knows, I’ve tried and failed before…let’s not forget about my experience during The Great Blogger’s Bakeoff.

So for the next 25 days, be prepared for a lot more Amanda! (Be afraid…be very afraid.)

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Anyone else trying Blogmas? Or accepting other challenges? Any advice for me as I prepare to massively ramp up my posting schedule?